"You're crying too much," Nemanja says. "You're having a nervous breakdown." I couldn't tell if Nemanja was being serious, so I told him I didn't think so. That it was just healthy to let it out. He agreed, so I'm assuming he was joking. Still, I get that lots of people might see me crying through this experience as being vulnerable and weak. That's sort of what we're taught. Men can't cry. It's not allowed. My wife, Sohee, confirmed this. "In Korea," she said. "We have a say